The power of humiliation and degrading

The problem I usually have with my sexual desires is that it's a cross between bimbofication and BDSM. And although in my mind they fit perfectly together, these two things aren't usually things people mix together. People that are in general into bimbos, are usually into it purely because of the big boobs, and don't necessarily have any interest. And the same thing applies the other way around, people that are into BDSM aren't necessarily very much into bimbofication.

One of the things I most frequently walk into, is people not exactly understanding how humiliation works, or at least, not to my liking. So in this post I'll try and explain the inner workings of humiliation and degrading someone in a sexual way.

For me the very basic idea revolves around admitting something that is a taboo, and the dom exploiting that to his advantage to humiliate and degrade me. So he's taking my deepest and darkest desires, things I might never want to admit in public, and tries to push my to admitting it how much I love and need it.

In a way it very much has to deal with shame we feel for sex. The dom takes this shame, and tries to use it in his advantage. He'll try to make the sub admit how she secretly enjoys it, and how much she's been hiding it from the rest of the world. He's exploiting his power position, knowing her every deepest darkest desire, her every basic needs, and uses in his full advantage, to turn her into the most depraved slut imaginable.

I specifically choose the picture with this post of this girl sitting in class naked tied to a chair with a vibrator inside of her. The picture clearly shows she's ashamed, she feels humiliated to be naked in class, so exposed and vulnerable, especially because the class is filled with people that can see her in this vulnerable position.

But perhaps even more humiliating is the fact the you can clearly see she's wet as fuck. In other words, despite her vulnerable position, sexually she's enjoying herself. She's just as much struggling with her vulnerable position as she is struggling not to orgasm, as that would even heighten and add to the humiliation. Yes, she would love this if she would be alone in private, but she would never dare to do this in public in class. But because she is in public in class, she's struggling between feeling shame and humiliation, and at the same time lust and orgasmic feelings. Deep down inside she just wants to cum, and forget about everything else, but at the same time she doesn't want to cum, because then everyone could she her most intimate moment.

Humiliation and degrading is about taking something someone deeply desires sexually, and tormenting them with it in a playful and sexual way. For me the whole goal of this is to have the sub admit and submit to her true sexual desires. Letting go of anything holding her back, and showing the world without shame her sexual desires. And the humiliation and degrading is a way to achieve that, to have a sub experience her most humiliating darkest desires, so she can let go of all those inhibitions and finally be her true self.